b"Chapter 3 This is the attitude of a creator; I create my life, I am responsible for myself, and I am the master of my destiny.7.Have a Zen attitude: think of life not as something that happens to you, but as something is happening for you. Look at every difficult situation, person or event as a lesson that has been introduced into your life to teach you something.The next time you ask yourself: Why is this happening to me? Choose a Zenattitudeinstead.Askyourself:amIsupposedtolearnortake advantage of this? How will this help me grow and become a better, more enlightened being?8.Be proactive: a reactive person lets others and outside events determine how they will feel. A proactive person decides how they will feel no matter what is happening around them. Be proactive in choosing your attitude and maintaining it throughout the day, regardless of what the day may bring.9.Change your thoughts: positive thoughts lead to a positive attitude, while negative thoughts lead to a negative attitude. Changing your attitude is as simpleashittingthepausebuttononwhatyou'rethinkingand choosing to have different thoughts.10.Have a purpose: having a purpose in life gives you a fixed point on the horizon to focus on, so you can stay stable amid life's fluctuations and challenges. Giving meaning and purpose to your life by knowing why you are here will do wonders for your attitude.11.Focus on the good: in order to have a positive attitude, focus on the good. Focus on the good in yourself, the good in your life, and the good in others.12.Stop expecting life to be easy: the truth is, sometimes life gets tough for all of us. It can even be painful. But you are brave and resourceful, and youcanhandleit.Knowthatsometimesthingswon'tbeeasyand embrace the attitude that you have what it takes to face whatever life throws at you.13.Keepyourenthusiasm:enthusiasticpeoplehaveapositiveattitude towards life. Have a list of ways to boost your enthusiasm, for times when you feel your zest for life is running out.For example, positive thoughts lead to a positive attitude, while negative thoughts lead to a negative attitude. Changing your attitude is as simple 100Germain Decelles"