b"Chapter 8 b.The person will become a worse version of themselves: she or he will becomemoreforceful,moreverballydemeaning,orsheorhewill increase the pressure on you to back off, go back to the script, and do as she or he tells you. Youmightevenseeallthreestylesofmanipulationinthesame person as they work to get what they want: the master turns into a savior who becomes the victim who turns into a master who turns into a savior and then the cycle repeats itself.It is always possible that this person will change, but it is unlikely. This is why you need a good support strategy.c.The person becomes physically and rationally dangerous: the person becomesanaggravatedversionofherorhimselfandbecomes physically and rationally dangerous.This person may try to ruin you financially, or even file charges against you. Because you won't do what she or he wants, she or he will go out ofherorhiswaytohurtyouinsomeway.Thispersoncanbe extremelydangerous,andyouwillneedemotionalsupportand possibly legalprotection to weather the storm. Luckily,this type of situation isn't as common, but you still need to plan ahead to keep your surroundings and loved ones safe.8.Where can I find additional help? We live in a broken and fallen world with people who are hurting. We need tobediscerningaboutmembersofthecommunity,ourworkplace,our church, our families, and our marriages.And, as much as it depends on us, we should live in peace with everyone. However,wehavetobediscerning,especiallywhenyouhavetorub shoulders with and even deal with a manipulative person.Donothesitatetotalkaboutitatworkwiththebossorthehuman resources department and even to consult the health department in your region.If you are experiencing discomfort at home or socially, speak with a good friend, clergy member, health counselor and if you experience or perceive verbal and emotional abuse that could lead to violence, do not hesitate to contact the authorities. All of these contributors will certainly help you make sense of your situation and will give you suggestions for the next steps. 254Germain Decelles"