b"DISCOVERING YOURSELF AS TO BETTER UNDERSTAND OTHERSFor example, people's eyes will look in a certain direction when they lie, but unfortunately it can be up and right, or down and right.You need to know their typical eye pattern before you can identify the situation. So, you'll probably only notice it in people you know well.Normally it doesn't matter what they are looking at, except if they are looking at the door it is a sign that, even if they are unaware of it, they are checking their escape route if they need to.No one in their right mind really likes to lie or feels comfortable doing so, so their subconscious is looking for the fastest way out of the conversation.i.They are getting ready to flee: it's not just their eyes that will give you a clue. Their whole body will likely be tilted towards the door, and if they're standing, you might notice them slowly and gradually moving towards it.If they were relaxed when you started talking to them and become tense when a certain topic is brought up, or if they tense up as soon as they see you, this is also a sign that they subconsciously prefer really to be somewhere else, and their bodies are about to flee.j.They have an aggressive behavior: if someone is getting angry or confronting you, that's a sign to take note of. If someone starts behaving aggressively without provocation, their unconscious defense mechanisms are kicking in.Always remember to look at the big picture.Not all these signs will be true for everyone you meet depending on the circumstances. If it's someone close to you, use what you know about their normal character before deciding whether you think they're lying or not. Ifit'ssomeoneyou'renotthatcloseto,besuretoconsiderthe context.For example, psychopaths don't get nervous when they lie because they won't show that they really feel guilty for the lies they tell. Germain Decelles77"