b"Chapter 1 Theyaretheoneswhoareresponsiblefortheirlives.That'swhyit's normal that they can be born into a poor family, but that doesn't mean they have to be poor for the rest of their lives. They believe they are the ones who can change their destiny. And so, they make choices and decisions based on the future they want.Of course, there are things we cannot control, such as weather, gravity, nature. But that doesn't mean we can't be responsible for what happens to us.Even if you can't control the event, you can still control your responses. Like this saying: I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can trim my sails to always reach my destination.Motivated people understand that blame, excuses, and justifications are not going to help them reach a higher level. And if they want to win the game of life, they must take full responsibility for their lives. Youtooshoulddothesame.Don'tblameormakeexcuses.Take responsibility for your life from this moment on.8.They deferinstantgratification: yes, highlymotivatedpeople know the powerofgratification.Whengiventhechoicebetweenpartyingand making their dreams come true, they always choose to make their dreams come true.They understand that if they work harder now for what they want, they can enjoy it later. Success is about making the right choices and doing the things that will get you where you want to go.Oftenpeoplechoosetohaveinstantpleasureratherthansacrifice themselves and work towards their goals. Motivated people understand that they must work hard now and sacrifice for their future.Remember this quote: Success is living a few years of your life like most people won't, so you can spend the rest of your life like most people can't.Therefore,learntodefergratification.Choosetoworkonwhatis important and not on something that gives you immediate pleasure.52Germain Decelles"