b"HOW TO ACHIEVE WELLNESS Whenonesystematicallygivesupone'sneedsandone'spersonal pleasure for someone else's benefit, one must be concerned.3.Why do these people need tostealtheir loved ones? Somejustdon'tliketogive.Theyareselfish.Thesecasesarerare. Psychicvampiresaremoreoftenverydependentpeople,unableto rejuvenate themselves emotionally and intellectually. This may be the result of a childhood when the parents gave too much because they did not learn affective autonomy. The result is aprofound lack of self-confidence.Still, this is in no way an excuse tovampirize others! Psychic Vampires must have a seductive personality for you to be able togiveintothem.Indeed,someofthemhaveagreatpowerof seduction. They use their charms tovampirizeus, especially in the couple. We are increasingly wary of these people, who are often mistaken fornarcissistic perverts. Themajorityofpsychicvampiresplayonournaturaltendencyto compassion, humanity and tenderness. More than great seducers, they behave like little children whom we would like to take care of.4.What is the ideal victim's personality type? These are people who naturally have a lot of empathy, a propensity for affection. They think they can give endlessly. Someevenfeelvaluedbytheseincessantrequests.Theyfeelasif they're important in thisvampire-vampirizedrelationship. They may be people who fear that they will not be loved or who feel that they have been spoiled by life, that they have received too much. This imagined guilt leads them to want tofixothers. It gives meaning to their lives.5.Should we then be wary of everyone to avoid beingvampirize?Of course not!We must not conclude that we must not help anyone, but in order to give, we must preserve ourselves. Somepeoplegeteatenalivewithoutevenrealizingtheirrelationships aren't healthy. To avoid getting there, it is important to learn to say stop in time.Germain Decelles317"